Trauma & Kinks, Friendship Breakups, Resources for Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse & More!

#AskRaquelSavage November: Hey fuckers! Here are the questions I answered this month + resources!

1. Do u think our first sexual experiences shape what our kinks/turn-on's are? Do you have any thoughts about using kink to process sexual abuse? Trauma and kinks piece 2. How do I deal with going through a friendship breakup? 3. Could you drop some resources/tips for victims of narcissistic abuse? 800.799.SAFE narcissistabusesupport.com "Why Does He Do That" Lundy Bancroft 4. As a client, how do I go about asking a sex worker what she's available for? Idk how to go about communicating what I want and vetting if someone is available to provide that, specifically around asking for an emotional exchange instead of a sexual one.