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May 11, 2021
5 min

Quarantine Weight #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

TW// diet talk, fatphobia, body image I’ve gained 30 lbs in the past two years. At the beginning of the year, I had my first divination....

Apr 13, 2021
5 min

Fuck Fathers #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

(April's #TPTT) I don’t talk about my dad a lot. Quite frequently I post screenshots of conversations with my mother, ridiculous shit...

Dec 15, 2020
5 min

Thank god (god?) for food #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

I’m writing this on Thanksgiving. What did you do this year? For many of us, the holidays preface our annual pilgrimage back home. For...

Nov 10, 2020
5 min

On fear-mongering, whorephobia and anti-trafficking language #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

This past month I gave three lectures to graduate and PhD-level counselors around competency and advocacy for Sex Workers. I’ve spent the...

Jul 14, 2020
7 min

On whorephobia, harm & accountability #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

I want to start this piece with a very clear message that I do not wish to drag or humiliate @sexwithashley and I absolutely discourage...

Apr 20, 2020
8 min

Visualizations using the senses #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

This is survival writing. I typically have really well thought out topics to write about – this month, I don’t. I have no motivation,...

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Mar 16, 2020
3 min

Anti-fatness by Da'Shaun Harrison #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

anti-fatness shows up in a variety of ways. in the fashion world, through the medical industry, through the diet industrial complex and...

Feb 10, 2020
4 min

Dear Jealousy #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

I did things a little different this month - I ripped a page out of my diary to show yall how I process in real time. This isn't...

Jan 13, 2020
7 min

Retiring from Sex Work #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

Last night I got a facetime call from a regular. I just so happened to be on the phone with my mom. “T is calling…” “Will you answer it?”...

Dec 17, 2019
4 min

Please, stop hitting your kids #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

Really quick about kids… There are hella different things going on with kids developmentally that, if disrupted, can hinder their...

Oct 17, 2019
6 min

Trauma & Kinks #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

TW// trauma Quite a few of you have asked me to discuss trauma as it pertains to kinks/preferences. This is a huge topic so I’ll do my...

Sep 19, 2019
8 min

Orgies #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

I did things a little different this month. This isn't really a #TPTT - this is what I would consider a sample chapter if I were to write...

Aug 15, 2019
4 min

Women as perpetrators of harm #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

TW// violence I’ve never been someone who has lots of women friends. Sans context, that sentence tends to activate a RED FLAG alert –...

Jul 19, 2019
6 min

Teens, Virginities & Misogyny #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

See attachment for the tweets I'm referencing TW//sexual violence First of all, research around what is typically called teens’ sexual...

Jun 10, 2019
4 min

Coercion #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

TW// sexual assault, r*pe We don’t talk enough about when you’re getting to know someone and you want it to work out so badly that the...

May 13, 2019
6 min

Ayesha Curry & Misogyny #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

I have complicated feelings about Ayesha Curry. On one hand, she’s a woman. I joke (on twitter) a lot about my legacy being butthole...

Feb 11, 2019
1 min

Processing unwanted feelings #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

Hey babies! Sorry for the late post :) Here's February's #TPTT - this month we're exploring feelings. Specifically, feelings we hate!...

Jan 14, 2019
7 min

Negotiating Ethical Sex #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap

I had an interview recently with the wonderful people at Unbound (@unboundbabes) and they asked me, “what is missing from the Consent...

Dec 3, 2018
5 min

Honoring Your Intuition

December's #TPTT (thought provoking thirst trap) This #TPTT is about a topic that I've been wanting to discuss for a while but haven't...

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