Fuck Fathers #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
(April's #TPTT) I don’t talk about my dad a lot. Quite frequently I post screenshots of conversations with my mother, ridiculous shit...
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Raquel Savage
- 5 min
Thank god (god?) for food #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
I’m writing this on Thanksgiving. What did you do this year? For many of us, the holidays preface our annual pilgrimage back home. For...
Raquel Savage
- 5 min
On fear-mongering, whorephobia and anti-trafficking language #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
This past month I gave three lectures to graduate and PhD-level counselors around competency and advocacy for Sex Workers. I’ve spent the...
Raquel Savage
- 7 min
I May Destroy You #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
TW// rape, sexual assault, substance use, therapy, victim blaming Note: the themes I discuss in this piece are not overarching – they...
Raquel Savage
- 7 min
On whorephobia, harm & accountability #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
I want to start this piece with a very clear message that I do not wish to drag or humiliate @sexwithashley and I absolutely discourage...
Raquel Savage
- 8 min
Visualizations using the senses #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
This is survival writing. I typically have really well thought out topics to write about – this month, I don’t. I have no motivation,...
Da'Shaun Harrison
- 3 min
Anti-fatness by Da'Shaun Harrison #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
anti-fatness shows up in a variety of ways. in the fashion world, through the medical industry, through the diet industrial complex and...
Raquel Savage
- 4 min
Dear Jealousy #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
I did things a little different this month - I ripped a page out of my diary to show yall how I process in real time. This isn't...
Raquel Savage
- 7 min
Retiring from Sex Work #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
Last night I got a facetime call from a regular. I just so happened to be on the phone with my mom. “T is calling…” “Will you answer it?”...
Raquel Savage
- 4 min
Please, stop hitting your kids #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
Really quick about kids… There are hella different things going on with kids developmentally that, if disrupted, can hinder their...
Raquel Savage
- 6 min
Call Me By Your Name #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
TW// love, heartbreak, age disparity I recently became obsessed with Timothée Chalamet. I’ve been called WMW… LMAO Anyway… I started with...
Raquel Savage
- 6 min
Trauma & Kinks #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
TW// trauma Quite a few of you have asked me to discuss trauma as it pertains to kinks/preferences. This is a huge topic so I’ll do my...
Raquel Savage
- 8 min
Orgies #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
I did things a little different this month. This isn't really a #TPTT - this is what I would consider a sample chapter if I were to write...
Raquel Savage
- 4 min
Women as perpetrators of harm #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
TW// violence I’ve never been someone who has lots of women friends. Sans context, that sentence tends to activate a RED FLAG alert –...
Raquel Savage
- 6 min
Teens, Virginities & Misogyny #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
See attachment for the tweets I'm referencing TW//sexual violence First of all, research around what is typically called teens’ sexual...
Raquel Savage
- 4 min
Coercion #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
TW// sexual assault, r*pe We don’t talk enough about when you’re getting to know someone and you want it to work out so badly that the...
Raquel Savage
- 6 min
Ayesha Curry & Misogyny #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
I have complicated feelings about Ayesha Curry. On one hand, she’s a woman. I joke (on twitter) a lot about my legacy being butthole...
Raquel Savage
- 5 min
Give penis a break #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
I really love penis. As much as penis is centered all the time and everywhere, I feel like so many conversations are unproductive. Not...
Raquel Savage
- 1 min
Processing unwanted feelings #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
Hey babies! Sorry for the late post :) Here's February's #TPTT - this month we're exploring feelings. Specifically, feelings we hate!...
Raquel Savage
- 7 min
Negotiating Ethical Sex #ThoughtProvokingThirstTrap
I had an interview recently with the wonderful people at Unbound (@unboundbabes) and they asked me, “what is missing from the Consent...
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